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Trying to Decide...


Hi, everyone:

I am 42 and my husband is 48. We are both professionals and have no children. My husband has opportunities for contract work 3-6 months in various areas of the US. I teach college classes online and work as a consultant. We currently own a small condo in Florida on the Gulf Coast. We have been bored with the traditional life of working 5 days a week and paying many bills associated with home ownership, such as the mortgage, HOA dues, taxes, iand insurance.

Would this be a good lifestyle for us? Are there people our age out there doing this? What recommendations do you have? Any regrets of selling your home?

Thanks for the input!

Jacquelyn



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Your questions are deep and wide ranging and paramount that each of you  gain solid insight on. This forum and Howards blog and web site explore many of them them in depth from both H's and even L's perspective.

Many of those topics can be found by searching this very forum (and his blog) for past threads. There is a vast and exceedingly realistic history from which to draw from here. Try the forum search feature and you might be surprised at what has already been said as well as what will be said as updates!

Anything can be a blast, it's all in what you set your mind to. Expectations. When expectations (conscious or not) do not meet reality, trouble is sure to follow!

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Great questions. I think you have come to a great place to get some answers.

Pam and I pondered that for a few months before we decided to pursue it. That decision was in Aug 2007. One of the best things I did was to read all of Howard's 3 years of journalling and go through all the different links. That alone is quite an education. Along the way Pam and I tried to be honest with each other about our fears and hesitations and talked them out. We also read and wrote about some topics on the RV-Dreams Lifestyle Magazine. The whole idea moved from a curiosity to a interest to a hobby to a commitment to a calling.

I think the only way to find out if it is for you is to immerse yourself in the forums, the shows, research, trips and visits --- to see if you can see yourself doing it. Then if you can figure out how to make it happen I think you will have a pretty good idea if it is the lifestyle for you.

Following other people's blogs showed us that many people are out there for different reasons and go about it many different ways.

Good luck in your quest and I hope you find your answers. There are lots of folks here who would be glad to help with any questions you may have.

Randy and Pam



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The most critical part is that you both want the full time Rv lifestyle.  If you both want it, it's great.  If both of you don't want it, it can be pure misery.  Luckily for us, we both love it.  Lots of folks are doing just what you have proposed.  With no children, it's much easier, of course.  Good luck in whatever  you decide.  Dave

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Jacquelyn,

Another way to see if you would like the fulltimer livestyle is to do a few dry runs at it.

Since it sounds like you both may have a flexible work situation you may want to rent an rv for a couple of weeks and travel to an RV park in another state for a week and then move to another park for the remainder of the time.

If that works, then rent the RV for a month and do a little more travelling but try to stay at a park for a week or two at a time. The first couple of days of any trip are exciting, but once you've been in the same place for a week or so, you start to see how "cabin fever" affects your moods.

Try to rent a fairly large motorhome, at least 32 feet and a class A type for the most comfort for living and driving. Be sure to bring a car, either towed behind the motorhome or driven separately. The car will allow you to sight see.

A month or two would be a good test to see if you would like the lifestyle.

Make sure you setup at RV parks with WiFi so you can do your work from the road to see if it will work so you still have a means of income. I've run into everything from practicing lawyers to CPAs to technology consultants to software writers that live in RVs and travel around the country.

It seems most folks are able to have a pretty comfortable life on about $2500 per month living in an RV. So you can see you won't have to work as hard as you do now to have fun.

Like others have said, spend time reading through the RV forums, most have a fulltimers section where the RV'ers discuss there lifestyle, what works and what doesn't work.

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Sherri and I over the years have owned 7 different houses in 7 different places and love to move around. We decided some time back instead of changing houses just get a full time rig and change locations. What the heck?? No more yard to upkeep no more taxes no more chores around the house every week end...and if we get tired of our neighbors we move to a new spot in the park...I have the same job just live mobile. Wala new view out the window too. Like everyone has said it has to be something you both want to do...and I mean WANT to. Bear has the right idea try it out and see for yourself...that is the best advise...

Joe and Sherri

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Our only regret it not doing it sooner. We did test the water as other posters have suggested. We bought a small trailer and kept it for a year. We put the trailer in a couple of different parks on a monthly basis. We spent as much time as possible at the trailer. Sometimes not going home for a week or so. After 3 months of doing that we put our house on the market. The house took 7 months to sell.

We have traveled even more than we could have imagined in 5 short months. DH is retired and I still work. As long as I have a good internet connection I have been able to keep my commitment to my clients. We use an air card and have experienced a 3G connection nearly everywhere we have been. smile

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We feel the same way, wish we had done this years ago. It takes a good, strong relationship to be able to handle the closeness you will find in an RV. If both partners are positive about making this new life together then by all means go for it.

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Dan,

You brought up a VERY important point. The physical closeness and 24/7 aspect is very telling in the fulltime lifestyle and many couples aren't ready for it.

A lot of marriages are in reality spent apart with work and hobbies and when all of a sudden are thrust together, big cracks develop.

Make sure you really get along before selling the house and leaving friends and family.

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One other thing I would like to add to this string is...Closeness. Yes you have to overcome this for sure. Believe me when I tell you that I wear on Sherri's patients!! I know you must be saying to yourself....NOT SPEEDY...Oh yes even Speedy can get on your nerves. One thing that we have done in the last three years of living together in 400 sq ft is getting seperate computers. Seperate TVs and we get along great now. If she needs me to do anything she just sends me an email and viola it gets done....I don't send her emails...she is the boss and only she can send them...I got a memo on that about a month ago. Be sure you have plenty to do ON YOUR OWN.

Speedy

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Speedy,

As usual your commentary rings so true...... I was going to say more but I just got an e-mail from the boss....gotta go

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